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Is there a difference between civil marriage and sacramental marriage
conducted in the Roman Catholic Church?
Yes. Unlike a civil ceremony, sacramental marriage invites and fully
recognizes God's presence in the union. This presence helps the partners grow in
love with each other and in the love of God.
Why is Matrimony a sacrament?
There are a number of reasons. First, the union is based in Scripture. There
union is found throughout the Old and New Testaments. The references begin at
the creation, when man and woman were created to be together (Genesis 1:26-27).
At the end of the New Testament, we have the image of the Feast of the Lamb at
the end (Revelation 19:7-9)
Is a sacramental marriage permanent?
Yes. In modern times, maintaining a union that is permanent can be
challenging. The many broken marriages in our society attest to this. However,
permanence is a a key component in sacramental marriage. The invitation and
recognition of God's presence works to maintain the union. With this and the
commitment of the couple conflicts and struggles may be worked out more readily.
How should couples prepare for the sacrament of matrimony?
The spiritual, relational, and practical considerations of marriage require
clear thought and planning. It is wise to seek counsel form a priest or other
minister well in advance of ceremony. This helps the couple to prepare for many
of the questions and issues that will arise when they are married. Pre-Cana and
other pre-marital classes and workshops may be available to help explore the
fullness that married life offers.
What requirements must a couple meet to be wed in the Church?
First, it is necessary that there are no encumbrances for either party. There
must be a valid marriage license. A priest must be available to perform the
ceremony. In most cases, a pre-marital class is required. This ensures that the
couple understands the commitment involved and has taken time to prepare for the
adjustment to married life.
What are the objectives, goals, ends of sacramental marriage?
The objective is to establish a loving and permanent partnership between the
spouses. Each person accepts the other in their entirety. The couple lives
together, establishes family, and raises and educates their children.
How are sex and marriage related to the call to holiness in Christian life?
In our culture, sexual attitudes and practices have undergone enormous
changes in recent decades. But while a true understanding of human sexuality
evolves, certain facts remain. Sexual relations are correctly based in the the
marital union of two persons. This fully committed relationship forms the basis
of parenting, which elevates the couples joy to a higher level. When sexual
unions are formed in other ways, the results are familiar. Broken homes, failed
relationships and abandonment are the end results.
What are some requirements of couples in sacramental marriage?
There are several, and a few will be touched upon here. Faithfulness to each
other in sexual relations. In this, the union of the flesh leads to a unity of
sprit, of purpose, and of will. Openness to fertility in a way which promotes
the dignity of the human persons. Commitment to the permanent nature of
sacramental marriage. Mutual love of one another, and sacrifice for each other.
The example of Christ giving His life for the Church is the model of love for
marriage (Ephesians Ch 5). Education of children, who should be raised with an
understanding of the faith and a love of God.
Is there a recipe for happy marriage?
There a many components which create a harmonious and happy married life.
Sharing prayer and sacramental graces enable couples to persevere amid the
struggles of modern life. A willingness to forgive, at times repeatedly. It is
written, " Be angry but do not sin, do not let the sun set on your
anger." These words, written to everyday Christians, are especially
pertinent to married couples. Finally, an understanding that the joys of married
life will last a lifetime. When viewed this way, petty concerns of the day are
very small compared to the love and joy that will last a lifetime.
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